You are AWESOME! ALL of you.
Perhaps it's the shock of waking up to see how many of our thoughts and actions have been driven by fear. The tendency is to go into judgment of the human parts. The ego can get demonized, battled, suppressed, avoided, denied, etc. Sometimes it goes the other way, glorifying an identity, clinging to it for dear life, carrying a shield and sword to fend off anything that contradicts it's very existence. None of this really sounds like love, does it?
When you see how every part was created with a reason and purpose, you can deeply appreciate all of you. Just because you appreciate something, doesn't mean you necessarily empower its actions any longer. Everything runs its course. Some parts were born to lie, cheat, steal, hate, manipulate, steal energy, play dead, disempower, etc. They were born of a need in that moment, but like everything born into the world of form, they reach the point where they die away. These parts can't find peace, can't "cross over", can't dissolve back into Source/you if you are judging them. It is love and clarity that sets them free.
For our parts created in trauma and fear, we honor them fully by realizing how they got us here, to this point of awareness. We can see how they helped us feel safe when that's what we really needed. Can you wholeheartedly say "GREAT JOB!" to the parts you once felt were shameful, unhelpful, or imperfect? Beyond saying it, can you mean it? Say it, mean it, feel it, own it, and send love to ALL of yourself. This isn't a sad, sappy, sympathetic love either, because that is loaded with an old energy overlay. When you really feel this from a clear and clean place, it is JOYFUL! Can you be joyful for every character you've created? And yet, if you feel sadness, honor it, don't resist it. But know that it's not your true essence. It's another earth energy passing through. The key is to feel and allow it all without fighting, nor embellishing. Just awareness and perhaps an inner smile of love, because that's your essence.
When you are genuinely appreciating every creation of Self, you are at a point of clarity where you can see the big picture, and you can step beyond old patterns with zest and enthusiasm! Some of the old habits and coping mechanisms become worn out and unappealing. And some of them are still supporting you in your everyday life, so great! Celebrate them too, and keep it up until you feel otherwise. When you outgrow a box, it naturally becomes unappealing. You don't have to fight any of these things, but staying aware of how you feel will guide you into and through endless evolutions. This endless growing and evolving becomes very exciting, rather than scary. In unconscious behavior, humans resist change, but in this new energy, we embrace change and we zoom through it with excitement for what gifts will be next.
Now, you can easily offer grace to others who are still acting out these old energy patterns. No judgment, just understanding and knowing that they too will move beyond when they're ready.
If you're judging anyone else, what part of you do they represent? What part within you has not yet been loved, appreciated, or brought forward to be seen, accepted, and eventually celebrated? Sometimes it's just a child who made a decision and is clinging to it, but you can firmly choose what to empower in your reality now. Love or fear. You always have the right to re-decide what is true for you.
Take a deep breath and feel awesome about yourself! You are AWESOME! All parts of you are awesome, precious and sacred. Own it, feel it, and live it, for yourself and for all. Namaste!
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